Sprinkling Self-Care in the Mix: A Marathon, Not a Sprint

Hey Queens!

Welcome back to "Marriage in the Mix," where we navigate the beautiful journey of love and partnership. Today, let's dive into a topic that's close to our hearts – self-care. Picture this: a full plate, and now you're adding marriage to the mix. Sounds overwhelming, right? But trust me, this is the perfect time to kick your self-care rituals into full gear.

Ironic as it may seem, the moment I said "I do" was when I realized the importance of prioritizing myself. As the saying goes, "you can't pour from an empty cup," and believe me, that rings truer now than ever. So, why is self-care crucial in this season of merging lives?

Sure, you're eager to prioritize your time with your spouse, especially in the honeymoon stage. But, sis, don't forget why he married you in the first place. He didn't sign up for a perfect, flawless version of you. No, he chose the cry baby, the stubborn one, and the unorganized beauty that is uniquely you.

In the midst of the chaos, it's easy to lose sight of yourself. But let me remind you, he's here for all of it, girl. Every quirk, every imperfection – that's what makes you, you. And that's who he fell in love with.

There's always room for improvement and addressing bad habits, but don't rush it. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Embrace the journey of growth together. Marriage is a partnership, a dance between two imperfect souls who choose to grow and evolve side by side.

So, how do you prioritize self-care amidst the chaos? For starters, just keep doing what you've been doing. Whether it's a quiet moment with a book, a bubble bath, or a walk in the park, keep doing the things that rejuvenate your spirit. Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish – it's necessary.

As you navigate this marathon of love, hold onto the fact that you are enough. Your quirks, your flaws, your uniqueness – that's what makes the journey worthwhile. Keep being authentically you, and watch your marriage flourish.

You got this, Mrs. ________

With love, VJ Thomas